I know that it has been a long time since I have written any updates on this website.  A friend of mine has been telling me to write about my lifestyle for years.  I usually end up telling some of my closer friends about my experiences, and do not write about them here.  I will try to update you more often here.  I do appreciate most of the comments.  If you have questions or general comments leave them on this website.  It gives me an idea of what to tell you about.

I have been home and with my husband for almost 10 days.   That is uncommon. My job takes me to various places around the United States and I am gone often, usually Monday through Friday, sometimes longer, sometimes shorter. Every week is different.

Because of the holidays I have been home a bit longer.

Anyway, my husband and I are invited to a New Years party at a friends house.  I was also invited to go Salsa dancing with a man I see maybe twice a year.  I did not decide until last night that I will go out with Jose and dance.  This is the first time I am sharing this type of information publicly prior to it happening.  Also, there is a chance my husband will read about it here before I tell him my new plans.   Shhh, do not tell. Lol.

Jose is an amazing Salsa dancer.  Latin men can be a lot of fun on the dance floor. I recall the first time I met Jose.  I was at a salsa club and he asked me to dance. I am not the best salsa dancer, but I do enjoy it. Jose was so fun!  I felt as if I did not have to do anything, just let him twirl me around. That first night I ended up giving him a blowjob in the parking lot.  Since then I have let him fuck me a few times and once went to his condo with him and his friend.  They were not interested in a threesome, but did both want me.   After being with Jose, I went into the other room to be with his friend.

Tonight I will meet up with Jose.  I have a feeling I will not be home until morning.

I will update you later on how it goes, and also tell you about a few things that have happened over the last 2 months, including a crazy Halloween night!

I have been trying to get to writing this for over a week now. Every time I begin to write, I get interrupted.

I had a wild night Friday that I have been meaning to write about. It was one of those nights that honestly I was not feeling very sexual. I also did not want to sleep. I spent some time talking to a few friends as well as chatting online.

One of my friends on Yahoo was daring me to order room service and answer the door topless. I have done that before, a few times and strongly considered it. I did call for room service but my mood was not in a naughty place.

I continued talking with my friend, Candy is here name (I am not kidding). Our conversation revolved around some things I have done, her wanting to be slutty, and me sitting alone in a hotel room. I was warming up and she continued to dare me to be bad.

In the end I am not so sure how long we were talking but I was feeling more and more ready. I finally agreed to call for another order of room service. Candy wanted me to answer door naked. I was feeling slutty. After talking for so long about being naughty and knowing someone was coming to see me, I was feeling warmer, and wanting to be dirty.

When the knock came on the door I was ready. I was naked. I also got into the bed when I said “come in”

I know it is crazy to fuck a total stranger. I did not know his name until we were done. He was black. Shaved head, and in his mid 30’s. Its not the first time I have played with a hotel employee. It may happen again… Lol

I have not had so much time to write. Sorry to those of you that are asking for more. I am doing all that I can.

So last week I had a strange adventure. My husband was on Yahoo chatting with some woman in the Philipines. This is really nothing new. He chats on Yahoo often. He also seems to chat with Asian girls. And he also likes to introduce me to the people he meets.

Sometimes it is fun. In fact I have made good friendships with a few of the people he chats with. Is it strange? Perhaps somewhat, but I do think it is okay. I have my fun, he can have some too.

What made last week a little more interesting was that I was in Chicago, my husband was at home, and his friend is in the Philipines. He somehow got her to talk on the phone while I was chatting with her, and him, on Yahoo.

I found it humorous. And I also wanted to tease him. So I told him I would call the guy I let fuck me last time I was in Chicago if they ended up having phone sex. Lol. I knew he was jerking off already anyway.

It was not long before I sent a text message to my friend from a few weeks prior. He called me shortly thereafter. We made plans to meet at my hotel, in the lobby, the following evening for dinner and drinks.

Maybe it was the fact that my husband was having phone sex, revenge in some ways. Honestly it did not bother me so much. But it did encourage me to be more naughty. I called my date an hour before we were suppose to meet and said I was running late. I asked him to just come to my hotel room. I had plans!

I also called the hotel service desk and requested a bottle of wine to be delivered at 6, 30 minutes after my date was scheduled to arrive.

When he did arrive I answered the door naked. He did not seem so surprised and thinking about it I am sure he assumed we would fuck. We already had. It did not take long for a little kissing, some roaming hands, and more. I did not want it to move too fast so when I got his pants open I slowly sucked him into my mouth. I continued to talk to him, taking short breaks from sucking him.

When the knock on the door came I got up as if nothing was going on, he tried to cover himself, and I think wonder why I stopped. Lol. Sadly the room service guy was older, not charming nor handsome. He was short and old. I had hoped it might be someone worth getting to participate in a threesome. I did allow him to look at me, I did not mind. I was naked. But I had no interest in him sexually, sadly. I really wanted something kinky.

After he was gone my date was asking me how I could do that. LOL. He was unnerved by my nakedness, open nature I suppose. After we shared a glass of wine we got back into the bed, doing some oral, some fucking, lol it was fun. I wanted to be really naughty that night, let someone do me that had not already, but it did not work out like that. I did have nice sex with my date, we enjoyed each other, went to dinner after, and he spent the night back in my room later that evening.

Maybe I should catch my husband jerking off on the phone more often. LOL.

I have been trying some of the new looks on this website. I am not sure if I like any. So far this is my favorite. Do you like the new look?

Okay, getting a little attention is always nice. However I am thankfully in some ways for this open method of communicating. Several of my friends read my blog. As I said earlier on I had encouragement from a few female friends to write a book or sexual manual for other women.

I thought you might be interested in my adventure last week. I was in Madison Wisconsin for most of the week. Because of my career I do travel often. Officially I am only required to travel 50% of the time. Honestly the travel is quite a bit more frequent. I have thought of slowing down, in more ways than one, but have not. I get major incentives to take assignments and for several reasons, take them.

It is common enough to find myself in a hotel bar or restaurant after a day of conferences, seminars, trainings and the like. Last week I met a charming guy, who was 21, at that bar. He was friendly, funny, and entertaining. We spent several hours the first two nights talking in the bar.

Anyway, I did make him wait until the third night for the more special dessert. I was honest with him. I told him that I am married, that my husband gets off when I sleep with other men, and that I enjoy sampling other guys. He was as most are, surprised and doubtful.

His doubts did not last long as we made it to my room.

We did some light kissing. I had to be more of the aggressor. Things got along faster after I removed most of my clothes. I did not give him much of a chance to take in the sight. A quick zipper and button and I had his cock in my mouth. It is always funny to tell a guy I am married and let him fuck me later. This one was no different.

He was a nice lover. Gentle, maybe too gentle. He did not last too long but it was fine. He spent the night with me and we had a second event in the morning.

This is one of many one night lovers I have experienced since I have been married. If you spot on Asian woman in your hotel bar sitting alone, make eye contact, it might be me making your night all the more fun.

As it turns out I hear that I had the most read or viewed website/blog on this site. Again I find that amusing and I admit that the times I have written it has been fun.

To some degree I have been using this as a tool to communicate with some friends that I know/talk with/and chat. The admin of the site has asked me how or what I did to promote my writing and honestly all I did was email the link to about 750 people I know or have had contact with over the past years.

I intend on writing more, some of the past, probably more of the future. I appreciate the comments and readership. I know little about this blog thing but find it quite interesting, and I do love reading other peoples writing as I have time to read them.

Thank you Silent Pillow, it has been fun for both of us.

And, thank you for the gift credit you said I will receive. It really is not much, but I am sure I can find something to buy with the $10.

Some of my friends that know more about me having been reading my website here. They have been encouraging me to say the least at writing more about my life. I am not sure if it is really that titilating but let me fill you in on some details of the past week.

I have been away from my home where I live with my husband for 9 days. Currently I am in the second city of this trip. Meaning I was in one other city before arriving where I currently am.

I am being careful once again about the information I share because I do not wish to hurt any of the parties involved. I also wanted to tell my husband about my Friday night before I shared it here.

So with the exception of last Friday, I have been a good girl. Good in that I have not done anything too naughty. However I do have a friend from college in the area where I am currently and I met him on Friday.

Friday was okay. It was nice to see my old boyfriend from years ago. Honestly I hooked up with him 3 years ago for a weekend and we hardly left our hotel room. This time however we had to be careful. He is in a “serious” relationship and did not want to jeopardize that, which I do understand.

We did still go out for a short time on Friday and ended up going back to my hotel. The sex was rushed and not as fun as I would normally have liked. He seemed to be nervous he might get caught and eager to do his business. What is strange is in the past he always went out of his way to pleasure me. We had great fun trying every position we could think of. This time is was a little oral and a quick fuck. I did have an orgasm, but far from earth shattering.

Sorry if you happen to find this. I enjoyed you, but I could tell you were elsewhere.

And I did let you fuck me without a condom. I do not do that so often anymore. It was for old times sake I suppose.

I am also fascinated by the other people writing on this site. I have to say it is comforting to know there are other “wild” people here.

My friend, the date from Friday, is asking me to go out this Friday.

I was planning on going dancing Friday night. I am undecided. Nice to have options though!

As I was saying the two most common questions people ask me about my lifestyle is how did it begin, and what was the most recent extra curricular activity that I have had.

These times are slightly difficult to relate here, because again, I am not sure who is reading this. I am confident that my husband does not know about this page yet. I am not so concerned this time if the other party finds this page or not. I know he had a nice time, we both did.

In any event, I went out dancing 2 weeks ago. As I sometimes do, I was feeling a bit tipsy. I had had a few glasses of wine. Enjoying the music at the time, and having a nice night out.

I met a younger guy, he is 21, who was cute, and fun enough to talk to. Clearly he was attracted to me, he bought me a drink or two, and in general would not leave me alone. It was not annoying. I felt that if I asked him to leave, or tell him I was busy, he would have left me alone.

Towards the end of the night, and a few drinks later, I asked him for a ride home. I was not direct with him that I am married. I did not feel the need. To make a long story short, I gave him a blowjob in the car.

We had talked a few times over the last 2 weeks and decided to get together again. We met at a bar I sometimes stop by after work. We had dinner together. It was like a nice romantic date. By the way, I had told him I was married already. By this time we both knew what we were getting into.

If you had not guessed it already, we ended up at his apartment. He lives alone, and, not that far from me. After a couple flirty kisses and some sexy talk, I let him strip me. He was nice enough to go down on me, and give me an orgasm before seeking his own. I returned the favor by sucking his cock before climbing on to him.

I spent the night at his apartment. We had sex again in the morning. He even made me breakfast!

How did you spend your Friday?

First I wanted to say thank you from the encouragement that I have gotten from my online friends, and the people that have commented here. It does help to know that there are like minded people, or at least ones that will not judge me, for these activities.

When people learn about my lifestyle I get one of two questions. The first is how did this start? The second is who did I fuck last.

Because we are getting to know each other I think I will answer the first, for now

I have not exactly been a prude all my life. At the same time, I was not a slut either. I had dated plenty of guys before getting married. My husband was my 9th lover. I have always enjoyed attention from men and at times was a bit of an exhibitionist.

In about our 4th year of marriage my husband suggested something I NEVER thought I would hear. If I recall correctly we were talking about my frequent travel and that I might get lonely at times. He said that if I felt like I needed it, and the opportunity arrose, I was free to explore territories as it were.

At the time I thought he was kidding. After a few more times of him bringing it up I thought he was insane!

Honestly the idea was somewhat exciting. I do get lonely sometimes. I find myself sitting in hotel bars, or cafes, in cities far away from home, and the idea had occured to me. However I never really considered it, it was more of a wild thought, something to stir my own imagination.

While on a vacation, and about a year after all this talk had begun a few things happened. The first major transition was while we were on vacation, living it up in the Caribean, an opportunity of sorts presented itself. We were at a little place, drinking, dancing, having fun in general. We ended up early on in the day sitting with a small group of people. I do not recall any of them well. It was hot, we were on the beach, drinking, and I was wearing a bikini. Nothing too sexy mind you, but I think I looked good.

As the day progressed and the drinks were flowing I got a little loose. There was a guy that was mildly flirting with me at the bar or while we danced about. At one point there was a conga line and he was behind me. The guy was not really that memorable. Kind of a bigger guy, dark hair, its about all I remember. Things got a little warmer in the conga line as we paraded around the place. His hands were taking every opportunity to touch me, and roam. It felt nice, I was drunk, and we were having fun.

Later he sat at our table. Everyone knew I was with my husband. However after talking awhile I got up for a bit and when I was back to the table, opted to sit on his lap. The people at the table seemed to have nervous looks, looking at me, looking at my husband. Nothing was really said about it, but you could see the tension.

My roaming hands friend continued his exploration, albeit quite discreet. Darren looked like he was going to cum in his shorts. I have to admit, it was extremely exciting. Hands had, at times, slipped a finger into my bikini bottom and touched me there. I was melting being in public, being touched, having my husband sit next to us, yet no one could really see what was happening. OMG!

For the day, and for roaming hands, that was as much that happened. You probably thought I let him fuck me. Remember, this was my first experience even considering a swinging experience. When we did get back to our room the sex with my husband was amazing. During a foreplay like session he asked how it felt to be wanted by another. During sex I asked him if he would really mind if our friend fucked me.

That was our plunge into the lifestyle. I did not have sex with anyone on that trip, aside from my husband, but it was not long before more adventures started happening.

More to come.